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Post by eyzpick » Thu May 24, 2018 9:08 pm

Bon, my absence, long story short told,

It started somewhere shorty after the meet last year, the videocard of my Mac went up in smoke.
Shortly before the meet I bought myself a new motorbike, so financials for extras like a new gaming rig weren’t available that time.

Second and much bigger problem was that our suspicion from the behaviour of Ella’s ASD. (autism spectrum disorder) where getting bigger and bigger. Temper tantrums where changing to SIB. (self-injurious behaviours), hard communications troubles with Ella (no speech, no point out, living in her own bubble, minimal contact/interaction), the whole cha-bang.

So we had to make a lot of changes at home for Ella and for Kira, at the daycare, at school, etc.
It is taking a lot of our time as parents, taking lessons for SMOG (spraak met ondersteuning van gebaren, speech with support of sign language) due Ella doesn’t speak, using a lot of icons at home due she doesn’t point out what she wants, all the test with several doctors, psychiatrists, speech therapist, neurologists, etc etc

Most of our time is complety spent on the family things.
So there isn’t much time for mummy or daddy free time stuff.
The little time I have for myself I’m using for riding the bike to clear my mind and relieve stress issues.

But I’m still planning on rejoining the ranks online and play chat joke laugh cry and shoot.
But when, sadly I don’t know …

The meet is something I don’t want to miss, so we managed to make the right arrangement to make sure I can come over and hug the sh*t out of you guys !!!
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Re: Well ...

Post by Hairy_Frog » Fri May 25, 2018 5:31 am

Courage mec.
I'm sure you are very good mom and dad :mrgreen:
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Re: Well ...

Post by DarkDeamon » Fri May 25, 2018 7:27 am

It's so hard when they are hurting like that. Have another good friend going through something similar.
We're here if you want somewhere to rant and let of a bit of steam.
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Post by taran » Fri May 25, 2018 7:30 am

welcome back Ice you have been missed, sent you a pm.

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Post by TokaiTele » Fri May 25, 2018 12:04 pm

Keep strong mate. Miss you!!! Get in touch any time.

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Post by Spawnsy » Sat May 26, 2018 8:20 am

I can't begin to imagine what it's been like mate. I would very much have understood if you had not planned to come to the meet. Hugs!
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Post by Projectblue » Sat May 26, 2018 11:27 am

Oof - sounds like an uphill struggle and a half. Totally understandable. If you can get to the meet to have a chill out, it would be great to see you. If you need a lift, post it up and see who's passing.
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